Let me clarify before i start getting into this topic.
U know the things u will never tell before a night out or after.
Well, i have some basic or essential tips when it comes to a night out u might be related to.
Firstly, let’s establish one rule: don’t judge (or do i don’t really give a fuck)
Anyway, this is what i do for a night out.
Note: this is only applied to Singles (if u r in a relationship then just ask ur better half for advice)
I know this will be TMI but let’s be real, aren’t we all concerned about this. Because u never know, u may just find ur one on the sticky and crowded dance floor. I’m not implying that u have to shave if u want to leave ur V the way it is, then go for it! It is ur choice. However, i always do though since i just felt right.
And the term” get laid” is not only apply to guys so just go for it.
# Dress code
Some people may say dress as little as u can. But girl to girl, i think just have a proper amount of skin. Then u r good to go. U have to know, not everyone will party with a team of security detail. ( if u do then bless u)
We all dress to impress but u don’t have to dress to impress others.
# Have a personality
I know when u r single things can get a bit depressing but u don’t have to be . U just need to be u and not being so subconscious about if a hot guy gonna notice u. Then u might end up making friends at the end of the nights.
Make sure u have some food and yogurt.( not sure why yogurt though)
This just makes sure u don’t get drunk too soon . Also, about pre-drink, a girl should never have too many shots at a pre-drink party. So pace urself, the night is long.
# u don’t have to give ur number to every guy that brought u a drink.
Guys, this is when the fake number and alcohol come in handy. No one will blame u and also if u r just to nice to turn them down, u don’t need to worry about what to text them when u r sober.
# Don’t be easy.
Just for u know, i have seen a lot of people leave with the first guy who hits on them. I mean, seriously, do u really think a one night stand is how u meet ur futrue husband or wife. Lets be real, it’s just sex.
#A pack of Marlboro without a light
This is a personal thing. Form my experiences, u can have a decent talk with someone during one cigarette . If u r okay with smoking then this tip is gold. (FYI, I’m not a regular smoker but i do smoke when the opportunity presents themselves.
#Just relaxed and have fun, make sure u went back home safely.
Well, that is about it. I know in some culture, clubbing sounds like a really bad idea. But for me, as long as u r going to legal places under a legal age then u r allowed to have a life. Also, remember, a night out is about fun instead of mating. If u r really looking for a relationship then i suggest u try Tinder.
DO u still remember how excited u were when u graduated form uni and all ready to conquer the world💪?
I sure remember how proud i am when i wrote my resume or Curriculum Vitae ( if anyone even bothered to Google the term👁)
Then, when my email is loaded with’ sorry,unfortunately,maybe and followed with a hash no. i started to feel like i have had a terrible flu which i will never recover from😷.
AND Maybe this is what i should have put in my CV or just slip a email for any HR department.
After all, we all get our confident crashed at some point so why just save the bull shits which people might just end up skipping .
So there is what CVs are meant to say:
To "whoever in charge", before u make a call to deliver the bad news Please hear me out I'm in the point that I am ashamed of taking money from my parents whom never believe me enough to let me go. Tired of seating in my chair and doing some projects that no one gives a fuck. And yet, I think it's meant something. I m also experienced depression and may have passed it whenever people tell me I can't . I have been told so many things but they all have the same message started with "No'".I'm not proud anymore or to anyone. I still try not to waste or freeze my brain cells by challenging myself with things I haven't heard of. So far, all I experienced is the anger and pity to myself while watching others success. I have been somebody 's daughter , sister, friend, girlfriend, classmate for so long the only thing I want is to have my own" 's" I know no company with a high profile will hire a person with little or even zero experience like me and I respect that. However, the only thing I can promise is to give my every bit of hard work as any human has. All I ask is an opportunity to be able to live my life . Take me as a charity case or a risk or whatever u think I am But in the end, I am willing to work hard, fight for a better version of me and not let me down. At last, what I have is respect to myself. Now feel free to add another stroke to my list of rejections.
그래서, 아무것이나 괜찮아.
I might arrive in a stage of my life that i need to speak out and just vent
image credited to tylershields.com
In my years, I have been rejected in jobs,school and people and still. i never once lose myself just simply because I disagree. People have constantly judge me by my education and looks. Now , i have had enough.
# i am a feminist
# i know i am not great but i fucking try to be better
# i have been through hell and still in the dark so stop pointing figures on my life
# i do have my own option and thoughts
#i don’t have many things but pride is one last thing i will never give up on
# i do have a suicide note in my laptop somewhere
#i do want to plan my death
# Yes, i have Cyclothymia
# i am tired of people sugar-coating everything
# I was raised rich but not anymore
#i keep it to myself because i don’t want to lie to anyone
# don’t ever promise my anything since u can’t keep them
# don’t ever slander me in front of my parents
# i do think i am adopted
#i don’t talk trash because i know better and raised with kind
Finally, i just want to tell those who r going through depression , that u have been through what others could not image and yet, u r still willing to fight through it so u will be fine and u r fine.
u r much stronger than u thought and u need no fix.
As always all the image credited to Vogue (most of it)
I know the fashion week is still going strong but i think we have seen it all, so we r going to take on the trend train🚄 with fashion and beauty to a glamour hopefully. 🙏
BTW, do u girl realised how many cheeky terms used in fashion,‘ #HIT or MISS’ and then what?’Goal’🏀; or the #RIDE or DIE🏍 products, i mean seriously, that’s some fucked messages for the youth; also, the ‘#HOLY GRAIL🏆’,i mean r we in an episode of Shadow Hunters ☁️or what. Dare to predict the next beauty tag, i reckon something form the early Medieval’s or anything onomatopoeia words 🐦related to ‘buy till die’.💰
Anyway, lets start with the most controversy topic👀 and I’m sure it won’t going anywhere.
i don’t own any of them if u have to ask.
From her most famous lip products to literally everything , u can tell that anything attached with the Kardashian🍑 family is a trend.
When u look at the official price, it is not that bad i would say but honestly👁, u can find so many products that is 80% similar and it 100% easy to buy. I mean u basically can find swatches for every Kylie products from ColourPop. The best part, it will be legit and won’t go up $1000 on eBay💰.
All i have for the Kylie trend is, # ‘what’s wrong with Colour pop, its only $5 a pop and it still makes ur eye pop. ‘
#Metallic _Head to Toe
Okay, i can deal with the whole metallic boots. It is definitely a fashion statement when u r too lazy to put on a get a photogenic in the morning then u just put on some killer shoes✨. However, Metallic everywhere, it is a really loud outfit and im pretty sure it will attract some unwanted attention. 👁
Maybe for a night out then I am all in or just dacing without a Disco ball. 💃
# Colour correcting
Jump on this trend last year but i just don’t get how it makes a different. ( maybe thats why i am not a beauty blogger)
I have watched a lot of beauty videos on colour correct products form NYX,Urban Decay, Stila to YSL and Dior Beauty etc.
I just don’t see how it ends up different from a good old concealer besides adding more steps for a simple make up routine.⏰So my take on this is just, save ur money on something else, but if they are sent to u by PR then make a review video .( who cares if u r using it daily)
#The Saint Laurent Boots
It sparkles and it is ‘every editor wants'( Julia Hobbs).What more do we want, i have seen every fashion bloggers rave about the Saint Laurent boots✨.
Also, i own a pair of boots from saint Laurent boots, but god, I ‘m not feeling it and its just a ‘NO‘ for me.
Lets be real now, what happened to Saint Laurent besides the departure of Hedi Slimane? 👀I mean i know collaboration in fashion industry is trendy, but when Dior reminds u of Valentino❀ and Saint Laurent reminds u of leather rain coats 🌧…. i just can’t see anyone ‘ride or die’ for this one.
I heard a lot of fashion people have decided to get over this trend, but lets just wing in for a moment. Can we just take a moment and think about when will u wear those shoes besides at home, clean and sunny LA streets or u r too rich to care about the heavy rain🌧 and snow❄️ .(well, if u have gold or cash displayed in ur house then do whatever u desire)
Yeah, just go ahead tell me ur feet is feeling good when u wear this within blow zero degree. 😢For this trend, i just can’t see its perks in any circumstances except its GUCCI.
#Clear sunglasses 👓
It is for sure a HIT🔥 for me, i mean its GOAL. Why not, a pair of sunglass that i can wear indoors then hell to the yeah. I know the Yellow coloured sunglass its tendy too, but just be careful when u choose the coloured sunglass in case u end up looking alike some insects.😎
#Smudged on purpose Lips
I found this makeup trend is quite useful. U know it’s literally kiss-proof 👄and whatelse u need when u r making out besides a ‘flawless’ make up.💑
#squad goal 👬
# free the boobs
#dress over pants or shirt👗
There are just so many tends in or off fashion week. We r always chasing it no matter🏃🏃 what causes u know how it is:
‘In fashion, one day u r in then u will never out.’
💕In summary, the best”HIT” in fashion, for me, is to find ur kind of fashion bloggers then ‘stalking’ them on Instagram. 📱