We constantly search for the one thing to help us survive in the adult world .
Besides the good old-fashioned ” just fucking grow up” .
The word’ Independent’ seems like a good concept when it is not involved in the evolution of a nation.
Well, some of the check list below might give u a some ideas on independent or just simply something i experienced in the past few years.
Firstly, i would like each one of u to at least think u r independent or just ignore the fact u r unemployed and live with ur parents.
#1 Ur own bank account which refer to check card instead of credit card
#2 Radom sleepover with someone who u can’t recall their name in the morning
#3 feel fine in Ur tiny one-room apartment
#4 Actually finish shits on ur to-do list
#5Know the laws for every right or wrong reasons
#6 Quit soda &coke and switch to a glass of Rose ( i meant to say it in French)
#7 take time to plan some outings for holiday season ( actually know ur holiday)
#8 Browsing information on OAPs for a rainy day (or just click on some health ads)
#9 keep tacks on ur period and sex life
#10 Go to the gym regularly for some actual work out
#11 Be a Breadcrumbee once a while or willing to be breadcrumbed by people who put their LV on the floor.
#12 Own an extra pair of cheap heels or ZARA dress just for clubbing
#13 A TGIF is about a book or occasionally get drunk on ur own
#14 u can count how many real friends u have who will go to ur dinner party with pizza and booze only.
#15 Climb to the top of the social pyramid insidiously
#16 Woke up in the morning without setting an alarm ( this probably means u r old AF)
There are just so many ways to prove u r independent or convince urself u r actually indeed happy with ur current status.
And maybe just maybe, we can find the opposite of loneliness in life without failing miserably.